Ethics & Practices
You hold your own answers. I am not here to feed you my idea of what they should be. I do not Create or Facilitate Psychic Dependency.
If you are looking for a “psychic” who is going to tell you who you are, what decisions to make, and where you are headed, you have come to the wrong place. My job is not to impose my ego upon you, nor is that my wish. My job is not to feed you fish that you don’t know how to catch, yourself. My job is not to keep you coming back to my office indefinitely because you become dependent upon my “oracle” in telling you how to wield yourself. My job is to help you to do the Big Work. To teach you how to fish your inner self from the depths of your gut, and cast your power and magic out to serve your purpose in the world. You should never allow your life decisions to be made by psychic readings or information. Instead, the focus should be on how you can further strengthen your dependency upon yourself.
Upon consultation, you will be provided with an informed consent document that details the lengths to which confidentiality extends. Essentially, all said within the context of a session, email, phone conversation, or text will be kept completely confidential unless you are threatening to harm yourself or someone else. Easy as pie. Simple as a pimple.
Do no harm; Do right.
I love the wording of this- this phrase that I got from my teachings at the Institute of Metaphysical Humanistic Sciences. It’s very simple. I don’t seek to do harm. I don’t seek to instil fear in you. And I don’t seek to mislead you into a path where you are harming yourself or others. I expect you to do the same, but I suppose your ethics are your ethics.
Humans always judge. It is how we see the world. You could not decipher if a shirt was red or blue without judging if it was red or blue. That said, I will never hold judgement. The judgement I use is to be able to read between the lines of who you are, not to categorise your language or your beliefs or your experiences as good or bad or right or wrong. They’re yours to judge. Not mine. I am here to hold space in a non-partisan way, and that is exactly what I will do. This serves you in the way of a) feeling seen b) feeling heard c) feeling accepted d) being able to understand, better, where you judge yourself, and once we get into that last facet, a lot of seriously beautiful shadow work can happen there.
It doesn’t happen. Period.
Please let me know if you have preferred pronouns that you would like me to use upon setting up a session, or upon meeting.
I won’t call and email you repeatedly until I get an answer from you. I expect the same from you. I don’t hook into your energy field. I expect you not to hook into mine. Were you to own a business and I needed your goods and services, I would pay you for them. I would respect you for them. I expect the same back from you. That includes my time: simple questions via email or phone are fine. If it starts to take longer than 10 minutes or you need to give me the back story of your entire life to be able to ask the question, that is what sessions are for. Your time is valuable. So is mine. Please keep that in mind when you are looking to receive information. Know that I have many boundaries that are not written about, here. I will let you know exactly what they are- I am very blunt and up front about them. If you overstep them, I will be sure to kindly let you know, as well.
Friends vs. Clients
If a client was a friend before they became a client, that is one thing. But it is unethical for me to become a friend to someone who was my client, first. This is because if we met each other under the pretence of me holding space for you, it automatically tips the relationship. It is always difficult for there to be a balance between two people when one is holding space for and healing the other, completely focusing on them, to begin with.
Psychic Insights about Other People
I am not here to answer your questions about other people. That is their business, not yours. And if you’re that busy focusing on them instead of focusing on yourself, well… congratulations- that’s what we’ll be working on ;)
I do not make Doomsday Prophecies or Psychic Predictions
You write your life. Not me. For more info on this, check out the FAQ.
While I do hold mediumship abilities and help others to hone their own should they want to, I am very explicit in that I refuse to call forth anyone who does not want to be present. Imagine you are on a vacation. It is your dream vacation and you’ve been saving up for it your whole life. You are in your bathing suit and are soaked- you were just in the ocean of your dreams. Getting back home is far and expensive, and you really have no intention of going back. Suddenly, you get a call from your best friend and they say, “Come home! Do it now, please!” with no explanation. You ask why, but they don’t hear you and they don’t answer- they just keep calling you over and over again. So you run to the nearest street, find a way, somehow to get a ride to the nearest airport as fast as possible, buy a last minute $3,000 plane ticket, fly ten hours, and then run in the door to your friend’s house as fast as you can. You say, “What is it? What’s wrong? Why did you need me?” and they say, “Oh, I just wanted to make sure you were okay all the way out there. And I wanted to ask you a very simple question about something.” Yea. You would be pissed. The same works for people who have crossed over. They are far away- usually having the time of their lives- and it is a huge inconvenience to them for them to come back. If they are already close by and ready to chit chat? No problem. But I am very strict about calling people forth for whom it takes work to call back to this plane- it doesn’t happen on my watch.
People work best when they are honest with themselves and with each other. Energy flows with the path of least resistance. You can expect for me to always be completely honest with you, and to disclose anything to you that comes into play within our sessions.
I do not answer questions that i do not know the answers to
I am not all-knowing, and do not pretend to be. I come from a want and a passion to help you find, know, and love yourself. Not from a place of needing to prove myself. If I don't know something, I am happy to inform you that I feel it is out of my sphere of expertise, and I will gladly either research it and send you corresponding materials, or I will refer you to someone whose expertise in that area will allow them to answer your questions.
I am not a Lawyer, Doctor, Accountant… etc.
And I am therefore unauthorised to answer such questions.
This work is not meant to replace working with a licensed mental health professional
Though I am in the midst of my master’s degree to obtain an LLPC (Limited Licensed Professional Counsellor) with an MA in Clinical Mental Health Counselling, I am not yet finished with the programme, and cannot, therefore, promote myself as a licensed counsellor. Even such, when my programme is completed, because this practise is not an established professional counselling practise, these services still cannot be deemed (unfortunately) as professional, licensed, clinical mental health practises. Because of that, I am also unauthorised to give or revoke any official mental health diagnoses at any point in time, though I am happy to refer you to a professional counsellor, social worker, or psychologist.